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April 30, 2013
Second Opinion? We're Taking Your Child
One would think having the
approval of a doctor and even clearance from the local police would be enough
to protect a parent from having their baby taken away over cries of “medical
neglect.” In this case, one would be wrong.Anna and Alex Nikolayev of Sacramento lost custody of their 5-month-old son last week when they decided to seek a second opinion before having the baby undergo heart surgery. Though a second doctor found it safe to release the boy into their custody, and though an investigating officer also cleared the family to go home, the child was taken the next day.
Timeline of Events
Little Sammy has had a heart
murmur since birth, which the parents have been closely monitoring along with
a doctor at Sutter Memorial Hospital. So when Sammy developed flu-like
symptoms a couple of weeks ago, his parents took him to Sutter again as a
precaution. During his stay, a couple of incidents occurred that concerned
the parents (such as administrating an anti-biotic to fight his virus). So
when Sammy was put in the pediatric intensive care and talk turned to heart
surgery, the parents wanted a second opinion.Unable to secure release from the doctors at Sutter Memorial, the parents took Sammy from the hospital anyway – prompting an automatic call to Child Protective Services and the Sacramento Police – and drove straight to neighboring Kaiser-Permanente Hospital. Doctors there determined that Sammy was healthy enough to go home with his parents. The doctor noted in his report that he saw no cause for concern in leaving Sammy in Anna and Alex’s care. (Corrective heart surgery is in Sammy’s future; the parents do not dispute this fact.) Police met the family at Kaiser, checked out the smiling baby, read the doctor’s report, and agreed that Sammy was in no danger. The Nikolayev family was free to go. That was April 23, 2013. The following day, a CPS worker and Sacramento Police arrived at the family’s home and removed the baby, carrying him back to Sutter Memorial, where he was held in “protective custody.” Though the parents got to visit Sammy to feed him three times a day for one supervised hour, they had to wait until Monday for a hearing. By then, coverage had gone international, with media outlets in Germany and in the family’s native Russia paying close attention. Ominously, local ABC station KXTV reports, “CPS said they were overwhelmed with the amount of attention by the media into the case, and could therefore take longer than usual to render a decision on Sammy's fate.” (emphasis added)
How Would the PRA Help?
Traditionally, the Supreme
Court has recognized the “fundamental liberty interest of natural parents in
the care, custody, and management of their child,” found in the Fourteenth
Amendment’s “Due Process” clause. Santosky
v. Kramer, 455 U.S. 745 (1982) This protection, however, has been
lost on Sacramento CPS. It is also being weakened through judicial erosion in
the courts.Passage of the Parental Rights Amendment will provide parents an explicit constitutional protection; otherwise, they’ll have to rely on the courts, hoping they will continue to interpret the Fourteenth Amendment as they traditionally have (but increasingly no longer do). And the PRA will allow organizations like CPS to know exactly what the rules are that they must follow. “The liberty of parents to direct the upbringing, education, and care of their child is a fundamental right. Neither the United States nor any State shall infringe this right without demonstrating that its governmental interest as applied to the person is of the highest order and not otherwise served.” These two sentences would make clear that CPS cannot take a child away unless it is prepared to prove that the child was in danger caused by abuse or neglect. In this case, it would increase the chances that common sense would prevail and baby Sammy would have gotten to stay home safe and sound with his mom and dad.
Action Items
Yesterday the county and the
family's lawyers reached an agreement to return Sammy to his parents' care,
but with stipulations limiting their choices in medical treatment. (See video here.) CPS will
continue to be a part of Sammy's life at least until the next hearing, set
for May 28. While we rejoice in the reunification of this family, we grieve over the unnecessary loss of
liberty this couple has suffered for no reason. We must make
sure such abuses do not continue unchecked. Here is how you can help:1. Share this email and the story of Sammy with everyone you know. Encourage them to support the Parental Rights Amendment and to sign on here. 2. Donate to support ParentalRights.org as we fight to protect the rights of parents like Anna and Alex. Help us make stories like Sammy’s a thing of the past. 3. Stay vigilant. Word is that the Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities will be back in the Senate Foreign Relations Committee this month. Watch for alerts letting you know when and how to focus your energies on stopping that dangerous treaty. Click here for the current appeal to call your senators today. Sincerely, Michael Ramey Director of Communications & Research P.S. – Due to the timely nature of this breaking news story, the Common Core article scheduled for today will be sent on Thursday of this week. |
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
A Good Example of Why We Need a Parental Rights Amendment
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
What Have I Been Up to?
I have had it on my mind to blog alot sooner than this but the days just get away from me. Even more so lately than usual. Since being told I have Gestational Diabetes my days consist of trying to decide the right things to eat, reading up on the issue, trying to remember to check my blood sugar two hours after each meal and walking everyday. All of that on top of the average day of homeschooling and dealing with toddlers, oh yeah, and teenagers...
I borrowed this book from a friend, which I have been reading, reading, reading, just hoping to find some ideas of things to eat. I didn't exactly expect to like it but it is actually a good book. I especially like the first several chapters. I feel like the authors do a great job at explaining how eating too many carbohdrates affects our bodies. The whole book is about 600 pages with a major part of it being recipes. I don't know that I would make many of the recipes but seeing some ideas of what to eat was helpful.
I did, however, find this yummy recipe for a 1 minute cake in a mug. I have made it entirely too many times... Made with the ingredients they suggest it has no carbs and could be classified as a healthy cake. I must admit that I add 1/8 cup of chocolate chips because it makes the cake richer and supposedly doesn't affect the carbohydrate count as it keeps it under a 5. I thought I would give you the recipe along with some substitutions I used when I made it tonight, which still kept me below the 15-30 carbs I am limited to on my snacks. Actually it was so rich tonight that I only ate half and gave the other half to B#4.
Whisk 1 egg in a coffee cup
Stir in 2 Tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder
3-4 tsps Stevia (I used 3tsp sugar tonight)
a splash of vanilla
1/2 tsp baking powder
1 Tablespoon water
1 Tablespoon coconut oil(I used 1 T real butter tonight)
and I personally add in 1/8 c. or less of chocolate chips
Stir all well and microwave for 1 minute.
I like to let mine cool for awhile on a plate before enjoying.
So besides life in general, I have also been trying to get a baby blanket knitted for baby before my due date. I think I am getting somewhere but I do still have a ways to go. This is one of my favorite baby blankets as I think it makes a nice weight to cover baby in the crib. I would prefer it to stay as a crib blanket but B#10 has claimed his as his favorite "blankie" that has to go everywhere with him. It is a bit heavy for that so for this baby I decided to try to make it a bit smaller. Not sure how well that will turn out since I am not an experienced knitter but we shall see.
Well that is life of late. Now I think I better put B#10 to bed and get back to the knitting!
Friday, April 5, 2013
Sorry!
I know I haven't posted since Easter...sorry. Life has been amazingly busy lately. Monday I had two appointments. One for another ultrasound of baby and one was just a regular OB appt. We got some pretty good pics of baby although my little point and shoot camera just doesn't do them justice as I attempt to take pictures of the pictures:). But you can clearly see baby in them so I will go ahead and show one. We decided we think it looks like a boy, but time will tell...He or she now weighs in at a whopping 1lb 15 oz.
Then at my OB appt. it was confirmed that I did indeed fail one portion of the Glucose Tolerance Test so I had to have an appt. with a Dietician on Wednesday. I now have to watch my carbs carefully and check my blood sugar 4 times a day.
But on the fun side of things, the weather here was very nice for a few days and we even broke out the shorts...at least the kids did. Some of the "biggers" went hiking on Tuesday near the coast but I don't have any pics of that. Maybe B#4 will post some on her blog for you all to see. The definitely got some great photos.
And we have had lots and lots of daffodils around here.
Then at my OB appt. it was confirmed that I did indeed fail one portion of the Glucose Tolerance Test so I had to have an appt. with a Dietician on Wednesday. I now have to watch my carbs carefully and check my blood sugar 4 times a day.
But on the fun side of things, the weather here was very nice for a few days and we even broke out the shorts...at least the kids did. Some of the "biggers" went hiking on Tuesday near the coast but I don't have any pics of that. Maybe B#4 will post some on her blog for you all to see. The definitely got some great photos.
He's so cute in his shorts...they make him look pretty short!
Sunday, March 31, 2013
Sunday Scripture
Happy Resurrection Day to you all!
He is Risen!
He is Risen Indeed!
Praying you all had a wonderful day, remembering the sacrifice that Jesus made for you and for me and the Victory over death that His resurrection gives us!
"For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world--our faith." 1John 5:4
"But thanks [be] to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." 1 Chronicles 15:57
He is Risen!
He is Risen Indeed!
Praying you all had a wonderful day, remembering the sacrifice that Jesus made for you and for me and the Victory over death that His resurrection gives us!
"For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world--our faith." 1John 5:4
"But thanks [be] to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." 1 Chronicles 15:57
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
A Day at the Zoo, a Pinterest recipe and a Birthday
It was so great to have two more hands to add to our helpers so we could keep up with the little ones while we were there. B#9 just loved having her "Bubby" push her through the zoo.
After smelling the Elephant ears at the zoo, knowing how expensive it would be for all of us, we decided to make some of our own when we got home using a Pinterest recipe. They were actually funnel cakes, but either way they were yummy.
Even B#8 ate some. He is a picky eater so we never know what he will like and what he won't.
We decided to celebrate B#1's birthday while he was here even though it isn't for about 10 days or so. He is a BIG 22! They do grow up:).
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Sunday Scripture
Well I actually managed to sit through church today. Dad kept the little ones home in hopes that no one will get sick this week. B#1 and his wife are coming for a visit and we want to be healthy.
What stood out to me today at church was actually a hymn so I thought I would post the words to the hymn today. Read the verses carefully, especially with Easter being next week. If you don't know Jesus as your personal Savior then the words will be especially meaningful for you.
There's Room At the Cross for You
The cross upon which Jesus died
Is a shelter in which we can hide
And its grace so free is sufficient for me
And deep is its fountain as wide as the sea.
Chorus
There's room at the cross for you
There's room at the cross for you
Though millions have come, there's still room for one
Yes there's room at the cross for you.
Though millions have found him a friend
And have turned from the sins they have sinned
The Savior still waits to open the gates
And welcome a sinner before it's too late.
Chorus
The hand of my Savior is strong
And the love of my Savior is long
Through sunshine or rain, through loss or in gain,
The blood flows from Calvary to cleanse every stain.
Chorus
I tried to find a link so you could hear it if you wanted but being the technologically challenged person that I am, I gave up.
What stood out to me today at church was actually a hymn so I thought I would post the words to the hymn today. Read the verses carefully, especially with Easter being next week. If you don't know Jesus as your personal Savior then the words will be especially meaningful for you.
There's Room At the Cross for You
The cross upon which Jesus died
Is a shelter in which we can hide
And its grace so free is sufficient for me
And deep is its fountain as wide as the sea.
Chorus
There's room at the cross for you
There's room at the cross for you
Though millions have come, there's still room for one
Yes there's room at the cross for you.
Though millions have found him a friend
And have turned from the sins they have sinned
The Savior still waits to open the gates
And welcome a sinner before it's too late.
Chorus
The hand of my Savior is strong
And the love of my Savior is long
Through sunshine or rain, through loss or in gain,
The blood flows from Calvary to cleanse every stain.
Chorus
I tried to find a link so you could hear it if you wanted but being the technologically challenged person that I am, I gave up.
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Easter
A few things we have been doing for Easter...
Making our Resurrection Garden
It is starting to sprout
We made these yummy empty tomb snacks.
Jesus paid our debt in full.
For Easter week, starting tomorrow, which is Palm Sunday we will be reading through the Easter story in the Bible. Instead of doing an Easter basket I planned out some things we will do each day after we read.
Sunday we will read about Palm Sunday. Palms make me think of coconuts so I bought Almond Joy and Mounds candies for the kids.
Monday we will be reading the Scripture where Jesus talks about the parable of the Fig Tree so I bought Fig Newtons(YUM).
Tuesday we will be reading about Judas agreeing to betray Jesus for 30 pieces of silver so we will have chocolate coins.
Wednesday we will be reading about the Last Supper so we will have oyster crackers(mini-saltines) and grape juice.
Thursday will be the betrayal in the Garden by Judas, where he kisses Jesus so I will give the kids Hershey Kisses.
On Friday we will be reading about the crucifixion and making a crown of thorns out of pretzel sticks and chocolate, also we will make our Resurrection Rolls which is a tradition. If you have never made them you really should try them. They are so yummy. You can find the directions HERE if you are interested.
On Saturday we will be reading about the soldiers securing the tomb with a stone. We found some candy rocks in the bulk section at the grocery store. It really looks like little rocks. Who knows how it will taste though.
Sunday will be church and a big meal although I don't know what we are having yet. Probably ham, which somehow seems wrong, since Jesus wouldn't eat pork but that just seems like what we usually do.
How about you? What plans do you have for Easter?
Making our Resurrection Garden
It is starting to sprout
We made these yummy empty tomb snacks.
Jesus paid our debt in full.
For Easter week, starting tomorrow, which is Palm Sunday we will be reading through the Easter story in the Bible. Instead of doing an Easter basket I planned out some things we will do each day after we read.
Sunday we will read about Palm Sunday. Palms make me think of coconuts so I bought Almond Joy and Mounds candies for the kids.
Monday we will be reading the Scripture where Jesus talks about the parable of the Fig Tree so I bought Fig Newtons(YUM).
Tuesday we will be reading about Judas agreeing to betray Jesus for 30 pieces of silver so we will have chocolate coins.
Wednesday we will be reading about the Last Supper so we will have oyster crackers(mini-saltines) and grape juice.
Thursday will be the betrayal in the Garden by Judas, where he kisses Jesus so I will give the kids Hershey Kisses.
On Friday we will be reading about the crucifixion and making a crown of thorns out of pretzel sticks and chocolate, also we will make our Resurrection Rolls which is a tradition. If you have never made them you really should try them. They are so yummy. You can find the directions HERE if you are interested.
On Saturday we will be reading about the soldiers securing the tomb with a stone. We found some candy rocks in the bulk section at the grocery store. It really looks like little rocks. Who knows how it will taste though.
Sunday will be church and a big meal although I don't know what we are having yet. Probably ham, which somehow seems wrong, since Jesus wouldn't eat pork but that just seems like what we usually do.
How about you? What plans do you have for Easter?
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